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Wednesday, October 8, 2008


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A Strategy for Teaching Your Children to Set Goals

Children as young as five can be taught to set simple goals that yield quick results. This skill will help your children and prepare them for adult life. The important thing is to instill the habit of setting goals, and show children how to plan their actions to achieve them. Here are five steps to get started, according to Terri Khonsari, author of "Raising A Superstar: Simple Strategies to Bring Out the Brilliance in Every Child":

  1. Define the goal: Help your children define their goal and what they want to achieve. Resist the urge to set goals for them. Your job is to listen, and help them find and define what THEY want to do. Their goal might be learning a new sport or musical instrument, or even simply baking a cake or getting an "A" in math or history.
  2. Put it on paper: Ask your children to write down their goals or draw a picture of them. You then have a way of putting their goals on a wall or a door where they can see them every day. Everyone else can see them, too, and show their support.
  3. Lay out an action plan: Help them understand the importance of having a plan. Ask them how much time they want to put into it every day, who they want to talk to that could help them succeed, and do they need to read or educate themselves to achieve the goal? Help them create a road map showing how they plan to get to their destination, and set a date for the goal to be reached.
  4. Teach persistence: Help your child when they get discouraged and frustrated. This is when they learn to overcome failure. Talk about the lessons they learn when they face challenges to achieve their goals. Encourage them to visualize success in their mind every day, create excitement during the process, and keep them motivated until they achieve their goal. Give your children the motto of "when you believe it you can achieve it!"
  5. Celebrate success: Acknowledge your child’s good work and celebrate success! Prepare an appropriate and meaningful reward. You know your child and can find ways to reward them that can create great memories, like taking them to an event or a game - it doesn’t always have to be material!

When you teach the process of goal setting it is essential for your children to see you as their role models. They learn from you and what you do more than what you tell them to do. Share your own goals with your family and brainstorm with them when you create your personal action plan. Get them involved and practice mutual support in helping each other. This way the benefits of goal setting and hard work are clear to the whole family, and you can all share in the rewards!

To learn more about Khonsari's work visit RaisingASuperstar.com and sign up for more free tips on raising happy, healthy and successful children.


Signs Your Child May Be Struggling with Reading

For almost 40 percent of kids, learning to read is a challenge. Parents can help children face the challenge by talking, reading, and writing with them. But families also need to watch for signs that may suggest a child is struggling with reading.

Does your child:

  • have difficulty remembering lessons?
  • hate to read aloud?
  • guess at words?
  • continue to need to sound out most words on a page?
  • struggle as he is working to sound out the words?
  • read slowly with a very choppy sound?
  • complain that he or she doesn't understand what he or she's read?

Whether you are wondering if your child has a learning disability or looking for ways to help, these expert answers to real questions from real parents will help you support a struggling reader.

If you have a specific question about a child who is having difficulty with reading, Reading Rockets can provide an answer and advice. Reading Rockets’ expert consultant will personally answer your e-mail within a week and your correspondence will remain confidential. (Reading Rockets may, however, post your question and answer with different names and details so other parents may learn from your experience.)

To send in your question to Reading Rockets, go to the Contact Form and choose "Question about reading" from the drop-down menu.

Parents of older readers who have questions about how to help struggling tween and teen readers can ask the experts at AdLit.org, Reading Rockets’ sister site all about adolescent literacy.


PTA Briefs

"My Family Dinner" Contest for Kids
There's still time for your kids to enter the "My Family Dinner" placemat coloring contest and share what happens during their family dinners. Winning placemat artwork will be used to help promote the 2009 Family Day—A Day to Eat Dinner with Your ChildrenTM. The deadline for entries is October 22, 2008. Visit casafamilyday.org for contest rules.

Family Day and the placemat coloring contest are programs of The National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University.


PTA Radio Makes its Debut

PTA's first online broadcast, PTA Radio, is one more way for PTA to provide resources to today's time-challenged parent. PTA Radio will focus on issues affecting families and child advocates and will provide real-life answers to everyday problems. A new show will air every two weeks. The first series of PTA Radio shows will center on male involvement and provide fathers and other male role models quick actionable tips to help them get more involved in their child's education. PTA Radio makes its debut today with "Getting Dads into the School Setting" with Bryan Davis of All Pro Dad and host Rae Pica. Go to the PTA Radio page or click play.


Quick Survey Will Yield Valuable Input
PTA wants to know what you think! Help us determine the issues that are most important to you. In less than two minutes you can check off the topics that you would like to see PTA address and discuss when the PTA National Council of States (with grassroots representation from all states) meets in March 2009. Register your priority issues. Just go to http://www.pta.org/ and take the PTA poll. Every voice will count.


Online Our Children offers Exclusive Content
The Online Our Children for October offers parents great advice to help their children learn and stay safe—"Easy Ways to Help Your Child Learn to Read" and "Protect Your Child from Cyberbullying." Parents who want to help their preschooler develop regular sleeping habits—and sleep in their own bed—can turn to "Teach Your Preschooler to Sleep." Go to the PTA Magazine page of PTA.org.


100 Ways to Help Your Child and School Succeed
There are many ways that you can help your child succeed! A few small activities each week will pay huge dividends over the course of the year. Here are a few that you can do this week:

  • Write, call, or visit local or state decision makers to support or oppose proposed education legislation.
    Escriba, llame o visite a los funcionarios locales o estatales dedicados a la elaboración de políticas para ofrecer su apoyo u oposición a las leyes educativas.
  • Participate in petition drives or letter-writing campaigns to Congress regarding legislation affecting public schools and other child-related issues.
    Participe en movimientos organizados para elevar peticiones o en campañas de presentación de cartas, en ambos casos dirigidas al Congreso, en materia de leyes inherentes a las escuelas públicas y demás temas relacionados con los niños..

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